Lifelong Learning vs. Longlife Learning.
From nearly a century ago, Carl Jung’s quote is even more relevant today. It highlights our need for a new kind of educational institution that allows mid-lifers to revisit their
Attain vs. Attune.
The simple line on my tombstone ought to be, “Nothing left to prove.” That said, when a big idea channels through me, it’s hard to ignore. It’s called a “calling”
Solitude vs. Loneliness.
Surgeon General Vivek Murthy cites the health risks of loneliness are as lethal as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day and even greater than those associated with obesity and
Tuition vs. Intuition.
For too many of us, our intuition is buried deep under that accumulated knowledge. It’s like a paradise paved over by the skyscrapers of learning and intellect. We become so
Routine vs. Ritual.
A routine is a habit without a soul. The difference between a routine and a ritual is the meaning we ascribe to it. Or as African author Malidoma Somé suggests,
Creating Midlife Shine with Tiny Habits®
In my mid-50s, I had hit the bottom of the U-Curve of Happiness. A late bloomer Boomer, I married at 39 and had my daughter at 41. Midlife joy! Yet
TOUGH BROAD
Recently a friend said he couldn’t believe I was sixty years old. Let’s be clear – this was not about whether I looked my age – I do. His astonishment
3 Ideas Missing From My Book
Here are the 3 big ideas (3 months after my most recent book was published) that came to me after I’d submitted the “Learning to Love Midlife” manuscript, which I
Wise Man & Wise Guy.
One of my mentors, Buzz McCoy, told me that the first thing he noticed upon entering a room of people in a meeting was whether they needed depth or humor
“I’ve Been Here Before”
Then, I realized throughout my career (and life) that people have said that to me in various ways. They expressed shock when, at 26, I bought a bankrupt, pay-by-the-hour motel
Did We Drive the U-Curve of Happiness into a Youthful Ditch?
These new findings are not wholly surprising. Gen Z’s well-being and mental health have been a concern for a few years now, and a wide variety of new issues—pervasive social
Rereading One of My Favorite Books, “The Middle Passage: From Misery to Meaning in Midlife”
Writer Maria Popova suggests, one has entered the Middle Passage when the demands of the true self press restive and uprising against the acquired persona, eventually colliding to produce untenable